Why blog about it?

Women are routinely told that they are supposed to stand (or lay) in awe of the sexual skills of the male gender. Let's be real, the vast majority of men do not know what it takes to please a woman.

Who knows where they get their ideas? Maybe they saw a movie where the male lead decided to practice his ABCs while going down on the woman. I'm sure you know the kind of weird stuff I'm talking about. Have you ever had a guy go down on you and act like he was a dog with a chew toy? No? Just me?

I don't know about you, but personally, I got tired of the complete and utter disappointment that seemed to be a constant in a past relationship. The ex always finished first and had the nerve to ask "was that good for you too?" No #minuteman it was not.

Now, please do not get me wrong, I am not opposed to all #minutemen because the things some of them can do in a minute is completely astounding. Just thinking about it....

Before I get distracted, the point I was trying to make was that I realized that I had to take control of my own sexual release. Because if I didn't do it, no one else would.

This lead to years of me discovering my sexuality. Eventually, I came to a point (no pun intended) where I knew exactly what helped me find my big "O" and I was able to share that with my partner. Before you ask, #minuteman was deemed unworthy (for reasons other than his lack of sexual prowess.)

Here I am, on the verge of hitting the big 3 0 and I realized that so many women are just as disappointed as I was in the past but, for whatever reason, they do not know how to please themselves. Maybe they spent years with one man that never put the needs of their wife before their own. No matter the situation, I wanted to help someone find a way please themselves without having to rely on someone else. So, the idea was born to create this blog. I have zero delusions that this will grow to be something big, but if I can help just one person find their own "sensual release" then I will be happy.