Finding What I Like
On my path to self-pleasure, I have spent a lot of time trying to find what I like. This means that I have invested a lot of money in different types of masturbation tools. If I'm being honest, I probably should have purchased stock from Adam & Eve, the online adult store.
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If you're like me, you may be a little intimidated by the products on this site at first. Or you may be unsure about some of the products because some of them look a lot different. Some products might look like this:
You may see things that you question, which is completely normal. Maybe your interest lies in things that are considered more risque, such as bondage, wax play, bdsm, etc.
Discovering what you enjoy is a process and everyone will have different tastes or different needs. Enjoy the process of reclaiming your sexuality and do not be afraid to try an item that interests you. I have purchased many items through the years that made me question myself, all because of preconceived notions that were pushed on me.
In the end, I realized that this is MY body. No one else's. If I want to use a toy on myself, then I'm going to because it brings me pleasure. We shouldn't have to feel bad for it. Men take finding their pleasure into their own hands (literally) and women should be able to do the same thing.
So buy that sexy outfit, those sexy shoes, that makeup, or those adult toys. Do it for yourself, first and foremost. Because you're the one that will always live with yourself, whether you are in a relationship or not.
*I will go over toys, individually, in other blog posts. If there is an item you are curious about, feel free to contact me at the email address listed.